A few years ago, I came back home to Hawaii after spending most of my most formative professional development in the South San Francisco Bay Area, what outsiders often call Silicon Valley. Silicon Valley was very competitive, which can be challenging but it also grew me like no other metropolitan area probably would have. For me, though, I was always in a space of wanting to keep up with the competition and when I finally burned out, I came home and owned up to my feelings of stuckness. I don’t think I’m completely out of the woods yet, which is why I’ve asked the guides to assist us with this topic.
Who will assist us with this question? Xavier, my galactic angels, Kahuna Nui Sebastian, an Ascended Master who specializes in energetics behind the healing journey, and my Growth Interference Quartz (pictured above) are going to guide us today. Beneath the question in italics is exactly what I hear from the guides, verbatim. Since several guides are going to be assisting us today, I will delineate below who is answering the question.
Why do humans become stuck? That is, what is the root cause of feeling like our lives are not moving forward?
Xavier: Rigidity. Stuckness in humans occurs because there is an attachment to some outcome that is not for their highest good. It can also occur when there is a rigidity as to how something needs to show up in their lives. And this can sometimes be an outgrowth of some outcome not being right timing, but the person is still pushing and pushing for it to occur now.
It’s important to respect your stuckness. You are being stopped by universal energies for your highest good. So, a better question to ask is, what am I not discerning such that I don’t understand why I have been stopped? First and foremost, you have to get to the root cause of your specific attachment to this outcome. Why is it that you want something that either isn’t for your highest good or isn’t right timing? And why do you push? When you reflect on this and become aware of what your high self is trying to communicate to you, you will see your stuckness diminish over time.
There is a complexity there. We’ve been taught as children never to give up and personally, I have always persisted towards an outcome. It sounds like you are telling us that sometimes it’s best to give up. So, how do we know whether to persist for a particular outcome or to quit?
Sebastian: On the inner, you always know what is right action and right timing. The issue with not knowing is that there are several streams of consciousness within the person that is vying for your attention and vying for your decision making. That is, there is the high self who is ALWAYS directing you, the small self who is receiving that direction, and then the soul fragment, who requires integration. The question for you is who is pushing you towards this outcome? When it is a soul fragment, that is usually a sign that one should surrender. We would not use the word quit for that has a different vibration. What you are being asked to do when you are stuck is to surrender to All That Is and to your blueprint at large. So, what must be done is that the person needs to get to their soul centered self, usually through meditation though there are other means that we will speak of later. When you are centered into yourself, you can access your high self and the small self can properly interpret that soul knowing. When you stay in your stuckness, usually you are amplifying the soul fragment and the belief systems that have fragmented them to begin with.
Now, we wish to tell you several ways you can be in that soul centered space such that you can receive the right information that will jog you out of your stuckness. Spending time in nature is usually a good way to center yourself to receive your highest guidance. This is because nature, such as your National Park System here in the United States where the channel is, will anchor your energy to receive much better. Some of you call these park systems vortexes or portals. It makes no difference which they are as either will anchor your energetic body to receive your highest guidance. For those who like water, this can also be a good way to begin to balance your polarities such that you may receive your highest guidance better. Lastly, those who like crystals can be assisted by their ability to entrain humans to a higher vibration.
Are there some guidelines or common scenarios you can synthesize for us to give us a hint if we should persist or surrender?
Xavier: Yes, and we thank you for this question. When you have tried more than once and you are not getting to your desired outcome, it is time to stop and discern. When you have tried more than two times, the likelihood is that it is not right action or right timing. When you have tried more than three times, the likelihood is that it is not right action. So, whatever this outcome is, the likelihood is that it does not belong to you or there are far higher vibrations of outcomes you can reach.
Inevitably, there are exceptions to this guideline and we encourage all readers not to treat this as some kind of hard and fast rule or skate on these guidelines to give yourself permission to quit. If you quit, but the outcome belongs to you and persistence was right action, you will be haunted by it and your high self will persist in asking you to persist. It is like that fly you cannot quite get rid of and keeps buzzing in your personal space. When you get these intuitive hits, it’s important to begin to discern what the energy is communicating to you. So, get yourself to a soul centered space and ask what is right action and when is right timing. If you have done the exercise above that Sebastian has laid out, you are very likely to get to the information you need to move past your stuckness.
What I am getting is that the way out of stuckness is through discernment, which should bring clarity. Other than what you have already mentioned, what can we do to get to better clarity on what is right action and when is right timing? Often, when we are stuck we know what we don’t want but we often don’t exactly know what we want, which can be the source of stuckness.
Xavier: Silent meditation is often a good way to get to clarity on anything, whether you are stuck or not stuck. As you silently meditate, wait until you reach the higher brain states where one is calm and centered. Then, begin asking questions as to what is right timing and right action. If you repeat this process and ask again, consistent messages are usually an indication that you are speaking to the high self and inconsistent messages or messages that feel intense or attached are usually indicative that you are interacting with a soul fragment that has a grave attachment to some outcome that does not belong to you in this life. Clarity is a process, but the more you practice it, the more you will have a knowing when it is coming from your soul centered high self or from a soul fragment that wishes a lower vibration outcome.
How can we build momentum and get to a place where we no longer feel stuck? That is, our life is moving forward and we are comfortable with where our life is going.
Xavier: As you make decisions based on the soul centered self, your feelings of stuckness will diminish little by little, depending on how much energy you have aggregated on the stuckness. The more you have been persisting through something that is not right action, the more energy you have to clear and reconcile. This is why, we gave you the guidelines above. It is not a hard and fast rule, yes, but it does give you a process to check in with the high self to potentially prevent aggregating so much energy that needs to clear later.
As you make those decisions that is based on the high self and not a soul fragment, the small self will become more and more comfortable at moving forward. There may be some wobbles at first, but as you keep affirming your blueprint, soon you will be running towards accomplishing your soul lessons.
I think there has been a lot of information offered here. I think this is a good place to close this post. Any last messages for readers of this post?
Growth Interference Quartz: Simply meditate on our picture if you need assistance clearing quantum levels of energy. We are here to assist you and to hold your hand towards that quantum leap you desire. We love you, we honor you, and we hold your space in deep unconditional love. And so it is.
Thank you very much for your time and energy!
Sebastian: We are assisting you in this challenging journey and support you in deep unconditional love. And so sit is.
Xavier: Go forth in your awareness and call on us to move any resistance and it will be so. And so it is.
