Discerning Between the Need for Validation and True Self-Love

by Maricar | Jun 14, 2023 | Ascension, Attachment, Jacqui, Rigidity, Self Love, Soul Fragmentation

The guides suggested that we do a post about discerning between being validated and self-love.  This is something I have struggled with.  I think the crux of it is that true self-love is constant, no matter how well our lives are going or how validated we are by...

Getting Unstuck – How to Move Forward When You Don’t Have Clarity

by Maricar | Jun 3, 2023 | Attachment, Crystal Guides, Discernment, Growth Interference Quartz, Resistance, Rigidity, Sebastian, Soul Fragmentation, Stuck, Xavier

A few years ago, I came back home to Hawaii after spending most of my most formative professional development in the South San Francisco Bay Area, what outsiders often call Silicon Valley.  Silicon Valley was very competitive, which can be challenging but it also grew...

Honoring Ourselves to Overcome the Imposter Syndrome

by Maricar | Jun 1, 2023 | Avoidance, Imposter Syndrome, Seraphim, Soul Fragmentation

I asked the guides to coach us through how to overcome the imposter syndrome.  The imposter syndrome is when we don't feel like we are good enough to be exactly where we are.  It's a kind of not enoughness that creeps up on you when you least expect it. ...

The Physiology of Ascension – What Descension Symptoms Look and Feel Like

by Maricar | Aug 12, 2022 | Ascension, Dolores, Sebastian, Seraphim

I recently did some energy work at Egmont Key State Park off the coast of Tampa Bay in Florida.  When I left the remote island, I was extremely tired and fatigued. I believe this is due to the intense energy work from a portal or energetic power spot.  So, I asked the...

When Procrastination Hurts – How can we Transmute the Root Cause of Severe Avoidance?

by Maricar | Aug 4, 2022 | ADHD, Avoidance, Burnout, Failure, Procrastination, Sebastian, Seraphim, Soul Fragmentation, Trauma, Xavier

I am addicted to procrastination.  Part of it is my ADHD and the time blindness that comes with.  Another part of it was covered in a post about the late diagnosis of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) where the guides told those of us with ADHD that we...

The Late Diagnosis of ADHD and Transmuting the Regret of Lost Time

by Maricar | Aug 3, 2022 | ADHD, Forgiveness, Mental Health, Sebastian, Soul Fragmentation, Xavier

I was diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) in my late 20s after I had already finished a college degree. It has taken me years to reconcile the event and be at peace with how it all occurred.  There are many books written on this topic but I...