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Reclaiming Joy by Shedding a Belief in Hierarchy

by Maricar | Feb 26, 2025 | Abandonment, Avoidance, Intentions, Rebirth, Self Love, Soul Fragmentation, Xavier | 0

Why is abandonment the root cause of the need to believe in societal hierarchy? It is in being abandoned, foremost, that you begin to relegate yourself to conditional love. This is an important point and it is a very nuanced one. The need to climb is painful because it is, on the inner, you relegating yourself to conditional love. I will be okay when ______. No, you are okay now, as you are. I will be beautiful when I lose 20 lbs. No, you are beautiful now. I will be successful when I finish my degree. No, if you believe in yourself now, you will be successful now. If you do not believe in yourself now, no amount of earning degrees will assist you in believing in yourself.

Why Do We Fear Success?

by Maricar | Dec 5, 2024 | Avoidance, Metatron, Seraphim, Soul Fragmentation, X, Xavier | 0

When an aspect of self has been hurt by your success, then it begins to conspire against you to be successful. How can this be? There are many variations of different blueprints but we will highlight those reasons that are relevant to those who will eventually read this message. Soul fragments can become disenchanted with success when that success has been hurtful to them. This includes behaviors such as overworking, pushing too hard, taking actions beyond the limits of authenticity of the soul centered self, and substantial people pleasing to earn that success.

How to Transmute Shame in the Body

by Maricar | Oct 9, 2024 | Avoidance, Metatron, Seraphim, Shame, Soul Fragmentation, Trauma, Xavier | 0

Shame is an energy that is deeply lodged within the cellular memory of the body. What do we mean by this? We mean that there is a level of automaticity in the body as it relates to those things, circumstances, and events that remind the body and soul of the shame it experienced in this life or in another life. If there is a great deal of avoidance in one’s life, if there is some level of incapacity in one area of life, be it in relationships, career, or something else, it might be indicative of an experience in the soul’s life where they felt deeply shamed.

The Root Cause of Self-Hate

by Maricar | Sep 23, 2024 | Authenticity, Avoidance, Metatron, Procrastination, Seraphim, Soul Fragmentation, Xavier | 0

If the personality persists in making decisions that is in diametrical opposition to their soul centeredness, then the aspect that has become apathetic becomes resentful. Should the personality keep on persisting, then the aspect’s resentfulness will begin to bleed into self-hate. At some point, the high self cannot allow self-hate energy to keep aggregating into the energetic body because it will cause the person’s vibration to lower, so they will usually call a triggering event to stop the individual from persisting in making decisions and taking actions that are in diametrical opposition to their soul centeredness.

X – The Art of Forgiveness

by Maricar | Mar 28, 2024 | Avoidance, Forgiveness, Karma, Self Love, Soul Fragmentation, X | 0

This is when we teach about forgiveness, true forgiveness. How do you forgive? Let us begin by what you are taught on the earth plane. On Earth, as humans, you are taught that the husband needs to forgive the wife. Understand why this works. This works because as the husband forgives his wife, he is really forgiving himself. When he forgives her for acting on their shared attractant, he is really forgiving himself. This is a much slower way of forgiving than what we are about to teach you.

X – How to Release Attachment to Identity

by Maricar | Dec 12, 2023 | Ascension, Attachment, Authenticity, Avoidance, Awareness, Procrastination, X | 0

We come forward with a message for you all today to teach you how to release your attachment to identity. Before we do that, we wish to educate you on what identity is. Identity is the first level of attachment, you understand? I am the one who is good at school. I am the one who is bad at school. I am the rebel. I am the saint. I am the one who strives. I am the one who takes it easy. I am the one who reaches my potential at all costs. I am the one who avoids my potential at all costs. What we hope you see in these statements is that you are not always aware you hold a certain identity. Almost no human gets up in the morning wanting to harm themselves, yet many of you do by holding on to identities that do not serve you. I am the one who _________. This is identity. You feel you must be this person. There is nothing wrong with some of these statements, yes, but what needs to clear is your unguarded attachment to these identities, to your identities that no longer serve you.

Honoring Ourselves to Overcome the Imposter Syndrome

by Maricar | Jun 1, 2023 | Avoidance, Imposter Syndrome, Seraphim, Soul Fragmentation | 0

I asked the guides to coach us through how to overcome the imposter syndrome. The imposter...

When Procrastination Hurts – How can we Transmute the Root Cause of Severe Avoidance?

by Maricar | Aug 4, 2022 | ADHD, Avoidance, Burnout, Failure, Procrastination, Sebastian, Seraphim, Soul Fragmentation, Trauma, Xavier | 0

I am addicted to procrastination. Part of it is my ADHD and the time blindness that comes with. ...

Category: Avoidance

Reclaiming Joy by Shedding a Belief in Hierarchy

Why Do We Fear Success?

How to Transmute Shame in the Body

The Root Cause of Self-Hate

X – The Art of Forgiveness

X – How to Release Attachment to Identity

Honoring Ourselves to Overcome the Imposter Syndrome

When Procrastination Hurts – How can we Transmute the Root Cause of Severe Avoidance?

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